Connect How did your love story begin?

I didnt want him to go to jail for soliting a prostitute on the internet. See his wife of 53 year died from female reproductive cancer. He was honest and faithful till the very end, and I loved him enough that I saw his hurt and my love has grown every day since because when you see a person at their core wound its impossible not to love them unconditionally. He was my best friend from the very beginning in an odd and intolerable love.

What is your favorite memory you've shared as a couple?

That man is a tornado, or at least our relationship feels like it. Last week I left my phone on a film set. Once I realized, he threw me in the car and we raced back to set. On route we pass debris on the road, no cow however as we drove through a literal tornado to get back to set...because I always lose my phone.

What would you do with $20,000?

We would probably hire Jeff to make a short film. We are film makers and with the large age gap, I need as many memories as possible. So I would marry him in a legit church and see if Jeff would marry us because I've never won a wedding dress. Ive worn a military uniform, a doctor's coat and never worn a white dress, and I would really love to wear one once. Its a big ask, to say how would we spend 20,000. Its just to big to even imagine.