Connect How did your love story begin?

He moved to LA hoping to reunite with his ex—but she introduced us instead. I was a single mom, and we didn’t click at first. Then I dreamed about him and invited him to Thanksgiving. He won me over with old-school charm—planned every date, kissed my forehead goodnight. Seven months later, he asked my parents’ blessing, then proposed in my favorite suit, with my favorite flowers and a sunburst ring. Our first kiss? On our wedding day.

What is your favorite memory you've shared as a couple?

During the housing crisis, facing bankruptcy and losing our home tested us like never before. But in that storm, we found unshakable strength—crying together, holding each other, and choosing love amid the rubble. That year, we celebrated our 7th anniversary by dancing at a Roots concert, joy and pain intertwined. That memory defines us: no matter how hard life gets, we face it together, fight for each other, and never let go of hope—or each other.

What would you do with $20,000?

This year marked our 25th anniversary. My husband surprised me by ‘re-proposing’ with a stunning ring. We dream of renewing our vows, but caring for my mom through her health battles has paused our plans. With $20,000, we’d finally celebrate—gathering loved ones so my mom can witness it, honoring 25 years of weathering storms together. This renewal wouldn’t just commemorate our past but let our family see how love deepens with time.