Ethan & David: heart, hustle, humor—building community, chasing dreams, and making misfits feel at home.
You decide who wins $20,000 and appears in Variety magazine as America’s Favorite Couple
Ethan had just come out as a gay transgender man and spotted David - the charismatic leather daddy ruling the bar. A friend shoved Ethan into saying hi. Flustered, he blurted, “Nice hair, where do you get it cut?” then bolted. It wasn’t smooth, but it was real. A year and a half later, fate gave them a second chance at a remote campground and the connection was instant.
What is your favorite memory you've shared as a couple?We founded Safe To Be in 2018, dreaming of a tiny home village for LGBTQ+ folks excluded just for being themselves. COVID delayed us, but love and grit carried us through. In 2024, we built our first home. It’s not just a memory - it’s a movement we started together.
What would you do with $20,000?We never had a honeymoon - our wedding was during COVID. For 5 years, we’ve given everything to our business and nonprofit, often skipping pay and vacations to care for others. A $20,000 gift would finally let us rest, reconnect, and take the honeymoon we never had. Recharging our love means returning even stronger for our community.
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