I barely survived a crazy almost ex husband when I met my now amazing hubby Pat. I was forced into a situation where I needed a bankers help, introduced to Pat, the bank Pres. at my bank. I told him the whole story about how my ex totaled my car with me in it and I needed immediate funds. He teared up hearing my story, helped me consolidate debt, & approved a small loan for a used car. He started coming to my gym I worked at, eventually asked me out July 1st that summer, the rest is love story h

Definitely the moment we found out that we were pregnant with our 1 and only child, our son Ayden, we conceived through a very fragile IVF process!!! It was the perfect culmination of our love and dedication to eachother and the painstaking and expensive process we had to go through to conceive. It bonded us even more! Who knew one day Pat would not know his own son because of EOAD...heartbreaking.

Being I currently am in arrears to my husband's Memory Care from cost that have built up I would pay that off and use the rest to meet the monthly cost demands until he passes...he was a banker by occupation and how ironic that we are now in this horrific situation that has financially devastated us. I can't work enough hours (I sell cars) to meet the high cost of Memory Care for him & that would break his heart if he knew the struggle I & our son are in. It's a heavy burden on top of this grief